The paradox of choices.




We think that the more preferences and choices we have, the more free and affluent we are. We think that the more thoughts we have, the more ideas we have, the more able to form opinions and categorize things, and the wiser we are.

But, there is a paradox with the preferences, choices, and opinions.

The preferences are bondages. 

I had already done the laundry and all of my son's clothes were clean and tidy except the red pullover with Spiderman he was wearing. He was adamant that he wanted the red pullover only because red was his favorite color.  He went to the school with that same stinky dirty red pullover. So what did his preference for red color give him? Maybe he had thought that he had won his way in his little quarrel with me where I had to give up on his choice. In fact, his preference for the red color had refrained him from the choices of the other better clothes options.


(Pic: Moumita Mukherjee)


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