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जिन्दगी

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  जिन्दगी, कुन अवगुण लुकाउन यति सुन्दरी भएर आयौ? कुन धारिलो छुरा लुकाएकी छौ यति मुस्कुराउँदै आयौ?

Running towards the mystery - Tenzin Priyadarshi

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It's not about running away from the crisis and suffering. It's running towards mystery. There are two kinds of ignorance. The one that knows is ignorant and is curious and corrects itself and learns. The other type does not know about its ignorance and never improves itself. There is drama in the world and also drama in the temple. People are either running away from something or running towards something. We are responsible for our karma. Rituals is the foolishness of trying to delegate it and outsource it. There is a man in Kumbha printing pictures of people and dipping them in gangs to suggest  snan.  Cf A Brahmin who killed a cow and said it was the hand of Indra. The basic human problem is fear of survival and loneliness since the caveman. He also wanted security and wanted to have companions and few people around him(tribe). But having food for today was fine. Tomorrow will take care of itself. Today also the basic problem is the same. But all the technologies have comp...

How does core principles of CBT, ACT, and DBT resonate with Buddhism

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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)  is one of the most widely used evidence-based psychotherapies for treating various mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, PTSD, and OCD. CBT operates on the principle that  thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are interconnected , and by changing maladaptive thought patterns, individuals can influence their emotions and behaviors positively. A core technique of CBT is  cognitive restructuring , which involves identifying and challenging irrational or unhelpful thoughts and replacing them with more balanced perspectives.   Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) , though related to CBT, takes a different approach by  focusing on acceptance rather than changing thoughts . Developed within the framework of mindfulness-based interventions, ACT teaches individuals to detach from unhelpful thoughts and emotions rather than struggling to eliminate them. Through six core processes: 1. Acceptance – Allowing emotions...

Face dunking for anxiety and depression.

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The technique of submerging your face in cold water to relieve anxiety and depression is rooted in the mammalian dive reflex and vagal nerve stimulation . It is a simple yet powerful physiological hack that can rapidly calm the nervous system.  When you submerge your face in cold water, your body triggers the dive reflex , which slows your heart rate, conserves oxygen, and induces a state of calm. This is an automatic response seen in marine mammals like seals and dolphins and is also present in humans. The vagus nerve is a key part of the parasympathetic nervous system (rest-and-digest mode). Cold exposure on the face, especially around the eyes, nose, and forehead , stimulates the vagus nerve, leading to decreased stress and increased emotional regulation. Anxiety and depression often involve overactivation of the sympathetic nervous system (fight-or-flight response). Cold water immersion shifts the body into a parasympathetic (calm) state , reducing cortisol (stress hormon...